What it Looks Like to Live by Your Values

Since the temperature dropped and our daughter started school, we've caught every virus. For our family, this means a lot of unplanned sick days and leaning into a season of slowing down, even with a to-do list that grows longer each week. But the to-do list can wait. Because for me, life isn't about checking off boxes on a list; it's about checking in with the people I love. 

When I live by my values, I make an effort to prioritize connection. This can mean something different for everyone; it can be as simple as making direct eye contact with the person I'm speaking with. Meaningful connection is a shared, mutual experience that requires us to engage with others in an intentional way. 

As we enter the busy holiday season with all its dinner parties, social events, and family gatherings, we have an opportunity to connect and reconnect with the many people in our lives. I'm writing this as a reminder to treat every exchange with thoughtfulness and openness rather than defaulting to superficial interactions out of haste.

Another value we practice in our home is to show our gratitude. Every year, we send out Christmas cards to our family and friends, and this year, each card will include a small personal thank-you note. During the holidays, it's easy to feel stretched to your limits when you're being pulled in many directions: decorating, baking, gifting, hosting and attending gatherings. A small thank-you note or show of appreciation will go a long way in making others feel valued and their efforts worthwhile. 

The start of December is the perfect time to set an intention for your holiday season, to get clear on what's most important to you, and make that your priority. How will you incorporate more of your values into this time of year?